Homelessness & Poverty

We can all agree that homelessness is a serious issue in certain regions throughout the world. Some begging for any spare change, others cuddled in a back-alley with a shopping cart filled with his or her belongings and maybe a dog or two. Most people fall conflicted with the choice whether to help them or not. Some people brush past them, pushing forward with their day to their jobs or their luxurious cars, ignoring a homeless person’s plea for a couple coins to save up for a meal that will last them the next few days. After reading four articles on poverty and homeless people, I have learned that just because a person is homeless doesn’t mean they’re unable to bring in an income. In “Brother, Don’t Spare A Dime”, an article written by Christopher Awalt, Awalt talks about some homeless people refusing to overcome their circumstances, while on the other hand, there are people who have been stripped clean financially and thrown to the streets and have no other place to go. Some homeless people suffer from mental illness that prevents them from solving any financial situation that puts them in the risk of poverty. It is hard making a choice after hearing stories about homeless people who stand on the freeway exit all day asking for change has a better income than a parent who works a five to nine on weekdays. Also, contributing to the dilemma, there are people who dress up as a homeless person and ask for money as either a side job, or they’re too lazy to acquire a job. This makes it harder to differentiate the permanently homeless and a homeless person for a couple hours. Everybody has the power to make a change and stand back up after falling. It’s just the matter of ambition for it. If a person really wants to make a great life for their self, they’ll do it. All there is to it is making the best judgment of who to give your money to when asked. Some people it means nothing, to others, it’s their life. Think twice about whom you give your money to.

In Class Journal Entry 3/7/12

Everyday, when I’m on my way to school, I see a homeless man with an oversized gray shirt and ripped pants sitting on the off-ramp with a cardboard sign and scribbled in faded black chalk read, “Homeless. Need food. God bless.” For the most part, I’m always for helping people especially homeless people when they’re looking for a bite to eat. I’m not the type to really keep cash in my wallet so I was never able to give him any money to assist his situation. I remember a couple weeks after first seeing this man, I noticed he had a new hat with what appeared to be a price tag daggling off the left side of his head. I thought about how strange that was and carried on with the rest of my day. A week later, after getting off the freeway, I saw him with another new hat. I understand that most homeless people are without cash, but when some are given money, they invest them in wrong products such as drugs, alcohol, or even hats.

Independence

Life was a rocky road throughout The Glass Castle by Jeannette Walls. Many choices that many people would not advise parents to make were made. Facing problems such as poverty, starvation, unstable living conditions, and emotional abuse, Jeannette and two of three siblings found success through the trials and tribulations set upon them. Due to the poor living conditions the Walls family lived in, many people debate whether Jeannette’s parents were unfit or not. However, they were fit parents because they raised their children to be hard, independent workers.

            If most people were put in the position Rex, Jeannette’s father, and Rose Mary, Jeannette’s mother, was put in, most parents would crumble. Some parents struggle even without all of the challenges to Jeannette and her family were put through, and to add another entre to their plates would be back breaking. Rex and Rose Mary cared for their children and because they were out “skedaddling,” they would homeschool their children. Rex and Rose Mary, as well as any common family greatly believed that education was essential for their child’s success. They ensured that their children would still be educated despite their living conditions, where surely enough, most parents would not even dare to attempt to teach them.

            Jeannette and her siblings spent much of their time fending for themselves. Jeannette had been boiling herself hot dogs ever since she was three-years-old. She would start the fire, add the water, add the sausage, and made hot dogs while being unmonitored. Encouraging children to be independent at a young age can teach a child to be hardworking in his or her future. After growing up, Jeannette and her siblings had moved to New York and most of them became successful due to the introduction of working for themselves in their earlier years. It is very difficult for children who had everything handed to them to become as successful. Independence leads to success. Children who fall under the dependent category are accustomed to relying on others to make things happen, and when they have nobody to rely on, nothing can get done because they do not know how or they are afraid to try. Therefore, children who are raised to be independent will have the ambition for success.

            A good example of this is when Rex threw Jeannette in the water when she could not swim. She could have either chose to swim to success, or give in and drown in failure. Jeannette begins to sink, and Rex finally rescued her. At first Jeannette was upset about her father’s actions, but a motto was developed from this scenario, “If you don’t want to sink, you better learn how to swim” (66). This event was a changing point to Jeannette, and brought light upon the need to work hard so she does not sink in society.

            However, just like every family, there is a downside. Jeannette and her siblings experienced emotional abuse because Rex was struggling with alcoholism. Although their family was poor, he always found a way to pocket enough change to buy some alcohol and get drunk to stir things up and cause havoc. Furthermore their mother, Rose Mary, was oblivious to all of their problems and lived in her own world searching to fulfill her long-lived dreams of becoming an artist. She tried to view everything in a positive way as if the negativity never existed. When her children came to her with problems, she would neglect them and act like nothing was ever wrong. Emotion abuse is not taken as seriously as it should have, and in fact, it could possibly be the reason that drove Maureen to her breaking point and stab Rose Mary.

However, despite the fact, the Walls’ children pushed through the hardships and found a way to forgive them. Even though Rose Mary and Rex put a lot of strain on their children, they still loved each other. Rex and Jeannette’s last conversation was them talking about how they loved each other. “’You always loved your old man, didn’t you?’ ‘I did, Dad,’ I said. ‘And you loved love” (279). Reading between the lines, a reader can infer Rex was apologizing for not being the best father in the world, but reminding his daughter that he still loved her, and assumes him that she loved him in return.

            Love goes a long way in family relationships. “Giving love and affection tops the list” for essential parenting skills according to “What Makes a Good Parent?” by Robert Epstein. The love that Rex and Jeannette have seemed to cancel all of the previous problems they had with each other. Their love was special, like the “star” Rex gave Jeannette for Christmas, which was actually the planet, Venus, which, ironically, is the Roman goddess of love.

            The Walls’ family always had good relations with each other, which made them stronger as a whole. Imagine if they were never in poverty or had the necessities they never did. They most likely would not have learned the fundamentals of independence and would have not been as hardworking as they are now. Jeannette is a true example of the “rags to riches” story by the encouragement and support of her parents. Her parents never gave up on her and always believed she was special and she would reach success some day. This being said, Rex and Rose Mary were fit parents. Jeannette owes her success to the hardships her family faced. Without them, she would not have the will to work hard. Her hard work shaped her to become the woman that she is today. The many obstacles the Walls children overcame helped them seek and achieve their dreams – something every parent should encourage.

Good Parents

Parenting is not only the ability to support a family financially, but there are other responsibilities that come into place in order for a parent to be considered “good.” Sure, having enough income to bear a family is essential to any family, but there are also other aspects of parenting that some parent’s lack.

Parents must be able to raise their child to teach him or her morals. A child without morals is setup to have a difficult time associating with people, which will lead to struggling throughout his or her life. Giving a child confidence and raising him or her to be successful is one of the best things any parent can do. Attention plays a huge role in helping a child gain confidence. The more confident a child is, the more they will put themselves out there and become a leader. Caring for a child shows that your child is important to you and your life. Little things can be done to show them that you care for them is healthy such as telling them you love them, taking them out to dinner, or simply going out and having fun.

Most of all, a parent must be able to love his or her child. If love is absent, the consequences can create havoc in the child’s lifetime. Love is the surrounding force of relationships, whether it be child and parent, boyfriend and girlfriend, or between siblings. If there is no love between a child and a parent, the connection between them will be weaker than those who have strong relationships.

Journal Entry Feb 13

In my opinion, I believe children who are raised in an enriching intellectual environment grow to become more successful. They are brought up to be go-getters who will have always have to hustle for survival. By doing this, they learn how to fend for themselves and they understand how it feels to be somewhat independent. Children who live in comfortable living conditions always have their work done for them and they never really know how to handle complicated situations on their own. They always have to rely on someone to get them through the thickest circumstances. But a equal balance between the two should ensure great success if raised properly.

The Glass Castle

Journal Question February 6

Not only adults, but also anybody can do whatever they want. Everybody has to power to do what he or she wants, even if it involves bending or breaking the rules. However, adults carry a more dominant role when they don’t have much higher authorities to punish them for wrong doings as children have on the other hand. However, there should be a stopping point when people realize if their actions are having negative effect on others. If they were a person with good morals, then they should know to stop.